The New Stages of Aging PDF Print E-mail

by Barbara Morris, R. Ph.

 

Many Boomers plan to work in some capacity in retirement. When they reach the big six-o, they won't automatically switch into the role of typical traditional retiree.

They will not fade into the sunset to play bingo, shuffleboard, golf every day.  While they will enjoy winding down they will not live life as a pastime.  They value their education, wisdom, and experience and will use it to help others while they help themselves stay vital and productive. They exercise, are in fabulous good health, and will work to stay that way.
 

Many Boomers plan to work in some capacity in retirement. When they reach the big six-o, they won't automatically switch into the role of typical traditional retiree.

They will not fade into the sunset to play bingo, shuffleboard, golf every day.  While they will enjoy winding down they will not live life as a pastime.  They value their education, wisdom, and experience and will use it to help others while they help themselves stay vital and productive. They exercise, are in fabulous good health, and will work to stay that way.

That means an increasing number of 60-plus year-old men and women do not think, look, or live like their parents at the same age. However, judging by images and portrayals of seniors in TV ads, this new class of retirees does not exist, even though their numbers are growing.

For example, TV ads pitching supplemental Medicare insurance for seniors depict only typical retirees: grandma kissing the baby; grandma blowing bubbles with the grandkids; grandma and grandpa strolling along the beach holding hands; grandpa playing ball with the grandkids.

Those ads generate a positive response from those who identify with the images and portrayals. And that's okay. But where are images of retirees who look and live differently?. Many of them are also on Medicare and are candidates for supplemental insurance. Is it good business to pretend they don’t exist?

People have the right to live the way they choose to live.  But I am bothered by the almost exclusive portrayal of seniors in the same way they were portrayed 25 years ago.

Showing traditional seniors as the norm to the exclusion of the new productive vibrant seniors perpetuates the stereotypical idea that traditional aging is the acceptable or only way to age.  Worse, it gives unfocused midlifers a license and even a subliminal mandate to accept a traditional sedentary, non-productive lifestyle as they age.

In Don't Stop the Career Clock , Dr. Helen Harkness defines the new stages of aging that many midlifers are adopting as their framework for living:

• First Midlife: 40-60
• Second Midlife: 60-80
• Young Old: 80-90
• Elderly: 90 and above
• Old-Old: 2-3 years to live

The media needs to acknowledge that "Harkness adopters" -- those in their "second midlife", and the "young old"-- resent the out-dated, antediluvian portrayal of how "old" people are and how they live.  It's time for corporate America and the advertising industry to catch up with reality. The earth is not flat and 75 is still young to those who don't fit into the traditional "old" mold.
 

Barbara Morris, R.Ph. is a pharmacist,  youth preservation strategist and author of Put Old on Hold. Visit her website at www.PutOldonHold.com and sign up for her newsletter and receive the special report, “Twelve Diva Tested Tips for Fabulous Skin.” Barbara’s expertise is cited in Art Linkletter and Mark Victor Hansen’s new book, How to Make the Rest of Your Life the Best of Your Life. Read reviews here.

Comments (3) >>
Stereotypes of aging
written by John Faulkner on January 16, 2007

The whole aging thing is going through a radical transformation. The traditional retirement ideas are changing because of several reasons. One huge one is health care and health insurance. Corporate America is in the process of removing the traditional idea of retiree health insurance. More and more companies are refusing to insure their employees into their retirement years. Medicare is headed towards insolvency. Older Americans are going to have to continue to work just to keep up with their health care. Riding off in your Winnebago into the sunset at age 60 will be a pipe dream for many older Americans. This shifting paradigm can be exciting or terrifying, depending on your personal perspective.

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written by Uncle Bill on February 18, 2007

Childhood and adolesence now last until the late 20's. Since 1970 the number of adults ages 2-34 living in a parent's home has ballooned by more than 50%, to 39 million.

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written by Uncle Bill on February 18, 2007

I forgot to edit my comment. It should read 25-34.

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